Little Man is 8!

When people tell you to love your children being little because they grow so fast, it's the absolute truth.  I cannot believe that I became a mom 8 years ago.  Philip's birthday was January 22 and even since then the days are flying by.  With another birthday just days away, it's time to post photos from Philip's big day!

As before, I tried to take a photo every hour through the day, but also as always, occasional hours passed me by uncaptured.  Anyhow, here's an overview of Philip's day, mostly filled with schoolwork even though he tried HARD to convince me that schoolwork shouldn't be a part of his birthday.

Reading time with Juliet. A standard part of each school day.

 

"I am 8!" declares Philip.

 

Grammer on his bed.  A great part of homeschooling. 

(Sitting on his bed, not grammer.  It's Philip least liked subject.)

One of his favorite things for lunch: spaghettio's.

Bible time after lunch when Juliet is down for her nap. 

I thrills my heart to know that Philip already has a love for the Word of God.

Skip a few hours and it's party time.  Philip is ready to chow down on a piece of Grandma's chocolate chip cake - his special request for his birthday.

Philip's grandparents joined us for dessert and present time.  Who's that crazy faced girl?

And yes, another Lego set for his birthday...

completed two hours later!

 



I am so thankful to know this awesome, 8 year-old boy and to be able to say I am his mom.  Philip has truly been a blessing to us and to those who know him.  As he grows, I am excited to watch God's plan for his life unroll before us.  The Bible verses we chose to be Philip's life verses when we had him dedicated to the Lord at 3 months old are Romans 8:38-39.  I pray that Philip will never doubt the truth in these words.

 

"For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord."

Family Field Trip to Kings Mountain

What to do on an unusually warm January day?  Plan a family field trip to Kings Mountain National Military Park!  We are blessed to have so much American history right here in South Carolina.  Now that we've begun studying American History in school, it was time to put some of it to use.  Plus it makes for a super, fun day together as a family! 

With Baby #4's arrival approaching quicker than I had anticipated (still due June 3 but the months seem to be flying by), I am working hard on completing our school year before the little one shows up on the scene.  By looking at my attendance sheet, I computed that by teaching Philip and Braewyn every Monday through Friday from here on, our last day of school would be April 26 (we must complete 180 days to complete a school year).  That would provide a WONDERFUL month (if baby comes on time and not before) to relax and get last minute things in order.  All that said, God's plans are always perfect and often not what we have expected.  We'll just have to see how things really pan out.

Anyway, this past Saturday was a school day thanks to our field trip.  We spent a refreshing three hours at Kings Mountain NMP and really learned a lot!  I had read online about their Junior Ranger program (available at many national parks), and so the first thing we did was go to the visitors' desk to get Philip and Braewyn their Junior Ranger booklets.   It told us we had to watch the 30 minute movie (a docu-drama of sorts depicting what happened during the Battle of Kings Mountain; occurring during the American Revolutionary War for any non-history buffs), hike the 1.5 mile trail around the mountain, and complete four activities in the booklet.   The kids were excited and I liked the fact that we had a something with which to validate it being a school day!

So here are the pictures!  And yes, Juliet enjoyed herself just as much as the rest of us regardless of understanding anything about the place. (If you click on any of the photos below, you will be able to see them all in a larger format.)

 And home again to the 21st century...

Just Some Photos

Life is still busy and I am even more tired these days now that the pregnancy is really starting to take over my body.  I do feel pretty well over all, but just struggle with slight nauseausness (sp?) when I get hungry (and completely famished if I wait too long to eat) and fatigue that hits in the early afternoons (a 30 minute nap is mandatory most days).  Any way, my lack of energy shouldn't keep you from enjoying a few looks at some really cute faces.  Here you go.

Philip played flag football for the second year.

 Braewyn tried cheerleading for the first time and loved it.  She is in the blue shoes!

 Miss Juliet is bright-eyed and bushy-tailed!

 We visited family in Georgia and Florida in early October.

 Sweet nap on her great-grandpa's lap.

 A fall must-do... visiting our local apple farm and this year in costume!

 Ended the month with a visit to our cousins' house in North Carolina.

 Happy Fall, Y'all!!

Thank You, Blog Readers!

I thank you, blog readers, for hanging on and still checking on me to see if there might be a new post!  Time is limited these days and so my perfectionism keeps me away from the blog telling me I can't post something worthy of reading in ten minutes time.  Well, I'm going to try again to disagree with that lie.  Things are hectic with homeschooling Philip and Braewyn, caring for Juliet in the mix, and maintaining a level of cleanliness in the kitchen and laundry departments.  However, some things are important even if there are no associated pictures.

Over the last several years, I have juggled in my mind big thoughts regarding children and God's plan.  I know for sure that God's plans are good even if they seem hard (Romans 8:28).  I know for sure that God is good and loving and faithful (1 John 4:16; Psalm 86:15).  These thoughts were persuaded by getting to know two large families (7 and 9 children!) who joined our church and by also watching Jim Bob and Michelle Duggar's family's TV show "19 Kids and Counting" (yes, they have 19 children!).  All three of these families are seeking the Lord's will for their lives in all areas.  I desire to know God as fully as I can and I believe trusting Him fully is part of that.  My favorite Bible verses for many years (since college) have been Proverbs 3:5-6, "Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will direct your paths." 

All that said, when Juliet was approaching her first birthday last February, Matthew and I began discussing what should come next.  Three children is a big responsibility so I truly wasn't not wanting another baby at that time.  However, I was being drawn to a desire of trusting God's plan for my life over my opinions of how I would like things to be.  Matthew and I decided that we would leave the opportunity for one more baby (yes, Matthew doesn't have hopes of matching those large families but saw four children as do-able) to the Lord's discretion.  Most people are scared of going without birth control, but with or without, God is the one who decides and creates each new life.  We've all heard of people unable to have children and others who have conceived while using birth control. 

So anyway, I entered this new chapter of our lives (not trying for a baby, but not proactively stopping it) with fear and trepidation.  I knew I had a kidney stone hanging in the bay which would not be fun to encounter while pregnant so I was honestly walking by faith that God would work things out if I just left the ball in His court.  March, April, May, June, and July pass and I began thinking maybe the Lord knows that three children are what I can handle and so no more are coming.  I won't lie - that sounded pretty good!  Three children do make for a lot of laundry to wash and meals to prepare. 

A Sunday morning in August found me in major pain and Matthew driving me to the ER.  That kidney stone began to move and by week's end, it had miraculously disappeared (see two posts ago for the full story).  Matthew casually commented the next morning, "Well, now if you get pregnant, you won't have to worry about that kidney stone."

Let me jump forward a month and end the suspense.  A few things nudged me in the direction of taking a pregnancy test on September 30.  Surprise, IT WAS POSITIVE!  The Lord has blessed us with a new little Brooks to be born on or around June 3, 2013.  That date seems SO far off, but it provides me plenty of time to get some more things in order (meal plans and weekly chore schedules nailed down) or so I hope.  We are all excited to find out who this little person will be and how he/she will change our family dynamic.  I'll try to keep you more regularly posted! 

(The caption for my title picture could now be "Juliet, you're going to be a big sister!")

Off To A Great Start

The Brooks Academy (the name I game our homeschool) is under way with a month of schooling under our belts.  Philip is in 2nd grade, Braewyn is in Kindergarten, and Juliet is in the "What can I get into today?" grade.  Our daily schedule is closing in daily on where I want it with just a few tweaks still to work out.  I will say the last two years (being pregnant and having a newborn/infant) were a lot easier than this year with our new and improved fully mobile Juliet.  I'm gaining wisdom and building character.  I'm also praying that Juliet's toddler years will be the hardest part of homeschooling which we'll pass through in this year and the next.  I'm thinking so as a seasoned homeschool dad asked me recently, with a smirk, "So how's homeschooling with a toddler?"  He knows and I replied that I would be asking his wife for suggestions on getting through this season.

All that said, Philip and Braewyn are really the ones doing the school work and doing it pretty well.  We are using My Father's World for our main curriculum (Bible, History, and Reading).  It's a little tough to tie together the components from the MFW Kindergarten curriculum (titled "MFW from A to Z") and the 2nd grade curriculum (titled "Adventures in MFW"), but for the most part it blends well.  Really, I'm teaching Braewyn to read (letter sounds and blends) and a bit of the Kindergarten Bible parts, but she is listening to Philip's 2nd grade history lesson and coloring while he writes summary paragraphs of our lesson.  He knows how to read so I just assign him library books on our history topic for the week. 

For math, we're continuing with Math-U-See.  It's a great program with a short video to introduce each week's lesson so the kids have their own math teacher other than Mom!  Science this year is again from Answers in Genesis and titled God's Design for Life.  Last year we learned all about aminals and now we're learning about plants.  I like this curriculum because it's part text book (I'm learning along with the kids!) and part activities (we made models of plant and animal cells this week).  The best part is that each lesson reminds us of how amazingly God created all things to function exactly according to His plan. 

Philip is also doing spelling and grammar lessons as well as playing Upward Flag Football and participating in our church's Children's Choir.  Braewyn is taking gymnastics lessons (so exciting to start those just following the summer Olympics) and on the Upward cheerleading squad for Philip's football league.  Our days are busy, but I believe it's a good balance.  I just really can't believe how fast they are growing up.  Praise the Lord for healthy children!!

Sayonora Kidney Stone!

So my last post found me in pain from a kidney stone.  We left off at 12:39am early Monday morning.  The Loritab helped me sleep for a few hours but then around 3:00am, I woke up again in a good deal of pain and so I took a Toradol pill.  I was able to sleep until the alarm sounded at 6:30am and was not in any pain.  The plan was for me to call the urologist, make an appointment, my dad watch the kids and I would go see my urologist.  Things didn't go as planned.

I did call the doc and left a message about wanting to come in as I had been to the ER the morning before.  My dad did come over around 9:00am and I kept waiting to get a call back to come to the doc.  Hours passed and I was hungry.  Matthew had suggested that I not eat because if my 5mm stone were lodged in a position to be blasted, they would only do it today if I had no food in my stomach.  Well, around 11:00am I decided to eat regardless of the chance to blast the stone.  My doc's office had yet to call back anyway.  A little later I called them only to find out my doctor and her nurse were not even in the office today.  Argh!  Why didn't they tell me that earlier?!

Now the day was half over and I still didn't know if I would see my urologist so I declared a teacher work day.  Philip was happy to play with his friends and Braewyn was content waiting to begin Kindergarten for one more day.  The day continued on as normal until I had gone to the bathroom and then suddenly felt I had to go again.  I was trying to consistently use the strainer to catch that 5mm stone if it should appear.  Well, something finally appeared in the strainer but it was no larger than a grain of sand!!  Was that what caused me all this pain? I had heard that small of stone could bring a grown man to his knees.  I was glad to see something but sad it wasn't 5mm!  So now I wondered if the pain would hit again as the rest of the stone had to still be in there, right?

Around 5:15pm, my urologist's office called asking if I still needed an appointment.  I said I was feeling better but would like to know for sure where my stone was.  I would see the urologist on Friday and told to just take my pain meds until then unless I developed a fever which would grant me a fast pass to the office!

Fast forward to Friday morning (following four pain-free days!) at which time I dropped the kids off at their respective sitters (the best grandparents in the world!!), and headed to the urologist's office with a bagful of things to do (teacher's manuals, sudoko puzzles, a notebook to work on my book... that's for another post!) as I anticipated a lengthy stay.  It was 8:52am when I arrived at the office.

It was actually 9:55am and I was walking out to my car.  Done!  Miraculous event in itself but let me not skip the best part.  So I was seen almost immediately for my x-ray.  From there, I waited 5 minutes, gave a urine sample, had my blood pressure checked and was in the room waiting for the doctore under 15 minutes later.  I've been at this office for HOURS before!  I was shocked.  There was a slight snag as the nurse could not locate my chart and asked if this was the day my appointment was originally booked.  I said yes, and waited for my urologist to arrive. 

After reading about 6 pages of "Crazy Love" by Francis Chan (a must-read book which I need to post about as well!), my doctor entered (I'd love to recommend her to you if you need a urologist in this area; she's awesome!) and first thing to come out of her mouth was, "I'm confused!"  I thought she meant about my chart being lost but then she snapped my x-ray from last May on the screen and pointed out my 5mm stone snuggly in my kidney.  Next she put up my x-ray from that day and said, "There's no stone and you said you didn't pass it. I don't know where it is!"   The first thing to come out of my mouth was, "Thank you, Jesus!  He took that stone away."  We discussed my drinking a lot of lemon juice recently but she said that doesn't shrink stones, just keeps new ones from developing.  I knew God could zap my stone away if He wanted to and I am so thankful He did!! 

There's no doubt in my mind that the Lord worked a miracle in my life.  I am very excited to see what He has in store for my family and me next!  He is a great God and wants so much for you to let Him work in and through your life too.  His plans will just blow you away!!  They do that for me.

The Kidney Stone Strikes Back

Some of you remember that I was attacked by a kidney stone last summer and knew that a second one was present but just laying low, literally in my kidney.  Well funny thing is that second one has now decided to pass just about a month after Matthew suffered his first kidney stone.  People now wonder if there's something in our water!

I woke up yesterday (Sunday) at about 5am with some pretty severe stomach cramps.  I thought it was gas pains so took a Gas-X.  After 30 minutes and not much relief, I woke Matthew to say maybe it was that second kidney stone kicking into gear or maybe something else. I did take a pregnancy test because the fear of an ectopic pregnancy did worry me.  The test was negative.  At 6:30am, I called my Dad to ask if he would come over to watch the kids while Matthew took me to the ER.  Once he arrived at our house, Matthew and I did head to the ER with me breathing like I was in labor.  Not a good feeling, but I wasn't as scared as last time as I had a pretty good feeling it was the kidney stone.

After being admitted to the ER, I was given an IV to administer pain killer and nausea medicines.  The doctor said the blood in my urine sample and the pain site together indicated that I was trying to pass a kidney stone.  Released with a prescription for more pain pills and orders to see my urologist a.s.a.p., we headed home. 

Now it is 12:39am and I'm getting drowsy after taking a Loritab 30 minutes ago.  I went to bed at 9pm but woke up a little bit ago hungry and thinking my last pain pill would be wearing off soon.  I pray to be able to see my urologist in the morning and find out from the x-ray where exactly this stinker kidney stone is. 

The Brooks Academy was scheduled to have it's first day of school today; Braewyn is thrilled to be officially in Kindergarten while Philip would rather have more days of summer vacation.  Looks like Philip will get his wish.  I hope we'll be able to begin on Tuesday or Wednesday at the latest.  I really am excited to jump into our third year of homeschooling and teach my two favorite students!  That said I also am glad that the kidney stone is now moving. 

Around Juliet's 1st birthday, Matthew and  I talked and we decided to no longer take birth control and let the Lord decide to bring us another baby or not (they are all gifts from Him anyway).  It has been a test of my  faith knowing that it while left in His timing, the idea of being pregnant and then the kidney stone beginning to move and medicine choices not being as wide as when not pregnant is a scary thing. I'll be thankful when this stone is gone whether by passing it or blasting it if too large too pass.  We will see as the days pass if another Brooks baby is in God's plan or not.  I do trust that my God knows what is best for us.  I just wonder if Philip will be 16, Braewyn 14 and Juliet 10, when that little pregnancy test shows us two pink lines!  That would be an adventure!